Help me out here.
When you get kissed for the first time no matter if it is your literal first kiss or your first kiss from a new person.
You expect sparks to fly emotions to be involed and to actually enjoy it correct?
So when you dont feel anything at all but someones lips against yours then what?
Some people say that it takes a few kisses, figure out how to work with one another before you get the sparks
Others say that if you really felt an attration you would still feel it in the kiss.
WHAT IS THE DEAL?!?!
My first kiss was exactly that, no emotion, confusion and parcially grossed out.
Gave the guy a few chances but it just didn't get any better and there were other reasons i was uneasy about
the idea of dating him. So i decided that it was a bad idea and we jsut stayed "friends".
Now i have people telling me it may have been smarter to wait things out AFTER things are already VERY over
and me and the guy are no longer friends in fact because i wouldn't date him he hates my guts.
So i would like a few outside opinions. It's not something i can change either way and tbh i wouldn't
It was an experience. But any opinions of your own would be super helpful!
Thank you
Kate